Late last August, we came home after a weekend away at a wedding to the damage of 16,000 gallons of water on the main floor and finished basement levels. A part of the tank-filling mechanism in the toilet on the main floor broke and the water flowed all weekend. All things considered, we didn't lose anything irreplaceable, and the house was fixable. The repairs were thankfully covered by insurance, so the situation was much easier financially than it might have been, and we made several upgrades. Our damaged house is lovely and finished now, but it's still hard to relax after all the time and energy in the past 6 months focused almost exclusively on the house repairs.
One of the rooms in our basement right after we got home.
Damage in the main room of the basement.
Basic lessons from dealing with a big dang mess of a house
- First call is to insurance company, not your mother. Although there are benefits to freaking out on the phone with your mother as opposed to a stranger. Of course, no phone calls are made until the water is turned off.
- Take pictures. Really if you do one thing, take lots of pictures. We ended up with more than 1,200 images related to the project, mostly of the damage. Take a picture of every single thing, and all rooms from all angles. During the repair process, document every change as it happens. I can't tell you how many times I referred back to pictures.
- Being prepared helps, except when it doesn't. We did have quite a few damaged items that were recorded in a home inventory, but had I taken the time to do a complete home inventory in the past, it would have been hours less work during a stressful time.
- Prevention rocks. Most of my books are in the basement, several hundred of them. As it happens, they're all off the floor on shelves, and I only lost 3 books. Our holiday decorations were on the floor, but in a big plastic bin -- the prelit tree wasn't so lucky. Be aware of how you're storing things. We don't tend to just pile boxes clothes and knick knacks in the basement, and it worked to our benefit.
- Take the time to think things through. Since the cabinets had to be ripped out anyhow, we took the chance to improve the layout and storage capacity of the kitchen drastically. We spent weeks coming up with convoluted solutions; just at the point of giving up, my husband came up with the simplest solution, so easily explained and executed that we were embarrassed at the time spent. We tried in every step to make sure we were making choices that went with the flow of previous choices.
- Watch the details of repairs. Paying attention to every single trivial change, and making sure that all work is done well is a long process. This is not the place to be shy about working with the contractor and communicating any problems early while still fixable.
- Don't expect business as usual. We went multiple months without a dishwasher, and several weeks during that time we wouldn't have access to our washer/dryer, stove, microwave. Many of our habits -- frequent home cooking, regular laundry shifts -- had to change and it was hard. Nothing went according to schedule, but sometimes that just life. I can't imagine dealing with this and children.
About a month after the incident, Atlanta saw serious flooding from rain, and so many of those homeowners faced the same process as us, but on a much larger scale, and with no insurance coverage. It's hard to feel self-pity when houses and schools had water up to the roof line.
I'm 30 years old, and it is only during the past 6 months that I have truly felt like an adult. I've had a "real" job for a long time, we've been married for almost 4 years and owned a house for just over 2 years. But it is only now -- having to deal with contractors, making decisions that have a long-term effect on my house's value, tackling the mountain of paperwork dealing with insurance, and keeping track of every detail and phone call -- only after all that do I feel grown up. Home ownership for us has been a lesson in endurance and fortitude.
A lesson well learned, it appears. In the 2 weeks since the house has been done, we had some serious vet bills and what we thought was a water heater that needed replacement. Nothing could change the vet bills, but today we found out a relatively inexpensive repair would fix our water heater problem. We've managed to remain relatively calm, and it's nice to not freak out at everything.





